People around us speak in a different manner.Some would said it in a very motivating manner whereas some would just keep pouring you cold water like nobody's business.Went for the job training today.Although i spent the whole day at the office,training was fun.The BM of mine is very friendly and the way he talks really motivates me and after the training,I've got the "push" feeling.LOL.
However,when there's light,there will confirm be darkness.Same for this.Other then encouraging others to make them go for the better,there also people who speak in a sacarstic or harsh manner and always get themselves into trouble.
For example,when someone had made a mistake,we shouldn't be crying over the spilled milk and reprimand,scold or do anything to condemn the one who caused the trouble but instead,we should use help them.To scold them or blame them will only worsen the situation and made them feel octsracised.To help them or encourage them,we need to communicate with them and shower them with care by talking to them,motivate them to do for the better.
Since words are known "cheap",why not praise and give constructive criticism instead of "wasting" on unnecessary comments that would affect or hurt others?=D
Thursday, February 28, 2008
Sunday, February 24, 2008
Friendship(Updated)
A new Jing Ru Calendar for the brand new 2008!!!!
Courtesy to Uncle of Visma,Thomas,Wei and Kelvin.
WaAaAa....the lime is sour....XP
Today was an eventful day out with Thomas,Siwei and gang....A gathering before the leaving of Aw to Japan for a few months.Though I not really that close to him frankly,I enjoyed the day out with them.
To make friends needs affinity.Though Aw and I not really close,we hitted off well and I really cherish the time that is spent.
Seperation in life is a normal thing and is a MUST to go through.Thus we can only look it at a positive way.Imagine someone close to you had left you for a few months and when you are going to bid the person goodbye,you are filled with tears,the one leaving will also be rather sad and won't bear to leave the place as well.This will make the situation rather bad and the atmosphere filled with much sorrow.
"It's still a day spent,why not spend it in a more joyful way?"
Having a gathering or meal,chatting and laughing together will reduce the saddness upon one's departure.Hence,why not use such a way to bid farewell to a friend that will be leaving for sometime?
To make friends needs affinity.Though Aw and I not really close,we hitted off well and I really cherish the time that is spent.
Seperation in life is a normal thing and is a MUST to go through.Thus we can only look it at a positive way.Imagine someone close to you had left you for a few months and when you are going to bid the person goodbye,you are filled with tears,the one leaving will also be rather sad and won't bear to leave the place as well.This will make the situation rather bad and the atmosphere filled with much sorrow.
"It's still a day spent,why not spend it in a more joyful way?"
Having a gathering or meal,chatting and laughing together will reduce the saddness upon one's departure.Hence,why not use such a way to bid farewell to a friend that will be leaving for sometime?
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Went out on a Movie trip again.Today's CJ7 was an entertaining and touching movie that moves people to tears.This show can also be showed at Fathers' Day lol....Through this show,I really realise that other then the role of a mother is important,Father also plays an important role too.
Someone whom work as a coolie,work n slogged his guts just to provide his child with the best things that he can get.To study in a better school for better education,worked like a mad dog just to get a new fan for his son.hough a coolie worker doesn't earn much,he would make sure that his son have his meal even if his son had quarrel and was tempermental.
Material goods are just to satisfy one's want and not need.This poor father would go all ways to give not only the needs of the child but the wants also.A salutation to such a good father and I strongly believe that most of our fathers are like this.
This movie actually affected me due to my granny's death recently.It is seriously important to cherish someone whom is really willing to Give And LoveAnd Not Asking For Repay.
Someone whom work as a coolie,work n slogged his guts just to provide his child with the best things that he can get.To study in a better school for better education,worked like a mad dog just to get a new fan for his son.hough a coolie worker doesn't earn much,he would make sure that his son have his meal even if his son had quarrel and was tempermental.
Material goods are just to satisfy one's want and not need.This poor father would go all ways to give not only the needs of the child but the wants also.A salutation to such a good father and I strongly believe that most of our fathers are like this.
This movie actually affected me due to my granny's death recently.It is seriously important to cherish someone whom is really willing to Give And LoveAnd Not Asking For Repay.
Untitled
This entry will be the first entry to be untitled and all about my life.Woke up at 9:30 by the rumbling sound of the cars and the sound of construction.Wasn't reluctant to wake up cause weekends are coming though to me,everyday is weekend.Hahas.The coming weekend is filled with activities.More movies and a farewell session for a friend.
Anyway,today watched a very nice movie with my godsis,Joanne(If u gt read my blog,HI)."L changed the world"
L was seriously n freaking smart,his actions and even his mansion is well prepared for emergency evacuation.I shall not touch too much on the story and the movie to prevent spoiling the mood of those going to watch it soon.XD.
"Make Tomorrow A Better Day" Thus never give up in life and enjoy it.Whatever matters that comes,positive or negative,remember C'est La Vie.XD.Off to bed and listening to Fish Leong le.Bye nitez....^^
Anyway,today watched a very nice movie with my godsis,Joanne(If u gt read my blog,HI)."L changed the world"
L was seriously n freaking smart,his actions and even his mansion is well prepared for emergency evacuation.I shall not touch too much on the story and the movie to prevent spoiling the mood of those going to watch it soon.XD.
"Make Tomorrow A Better Day" Thus never give up in life and enjoy it.Whatever matters that comes,positive or negative,remember C'est La Vie.XD.Off to bed and listening to Fish Leong le.Bye nitez....^^
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Choices
"Choices have consequences...."
These phrase confirm wouldn't be an alien to you cause it appears everywhere,whether is it in school or at home.A solid fact or just the phrase.Recently had been very busy,many events had happened.(Lol I know that I had a lot of events happening cause this isn't my first time REPEATING.)
I was posted to Biomedical Informatics and Engineering in TP.I wasn't really careful about choosing this course as I ASSUME it to be under sci courses.However,it turn out to be an engineering course which I didn't really like.So I was deciding whether to make an appeal to another course that I would prefer to than this.As I was going to appeal for another course,it seemed that this has been the best among the others.Thus,I gave up making the appeal as it was something that I wanted earlier though it wasn't totally going according my likings.
The above example of mine had showed that other than being careful and precise in decision,one should understand and had to accept the consequences regardless is it a positive one or a negative one.If he did not make the right choice,he will be suffering the results instead of rewards.
These phrase confirm wouldn't be an alien to you cause it appears everywhere,whether is it in school or at home.A solid fact or just the phrase.Recently had been very busy,many events had happened.(Lol I know that I had a lot of events happening cause this isn't my first time REPEATING.)
I was posted to Biomedical Informatics and Engineering in TP.I wasn't really careful about choosing this course as I ASSUME it to be under sci courses.However,it turn out to be an engineering course which I didn't really like.So I was deciding whether to make an appeal to another course that I would prefer to than this.As I was going to appeal for another course,it seemed that this has been the best among the others.Thus,I gave up making the appeal as it was something that I wanted earlier though it wasn't totally going according my likings.
The above example of mine had showed that other than being careful and precise in decision,one should understand and had to accept the consequences regardless is it a positive one or a negative one.If he did not make the right choice,he will be suffering the results instead of rewards.
Saturday, February 16, 2008
Delayed this post due to fatigue yesterday and brain going dead day by day.Went temple for the second week after granny's death.Upload some photos soon about the funeral.That's for now...Continue with yesterday's entry.
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16/2/2008
With the warm breeze and the gazing sunlight of the sun at 9:40AM with Fish Leong Sunrise Album playing through my radio,I decided to leave an entry.Lol.A long night was spent at Jeffrey's house.A habit of the chinese that they will do at others' house.Is not hard to guess what the activity is,it is a way you make "investment".
It is gambling.Why does Chinese have to gamble a lot during CNY period.It's a new start so it means saturated with luck and want to take advantage of this period to win some money?However,a chinese proverb said it"Gamble for ten rounds,one would normally lose nine of them."
Anyway,I didn't want to touch them,don't know whyXD.Went to the balcony looking at the buzzling highway at 3.30 in the morning lol.Walking in an out of Jeffrey's room,stared at the HD and laze around the balcony.Slowly time passes.......Is 5AM!!lol....Went to the room and wanted to take a nap and Fish Leong wake me up!!!by her MV of cuz lolsXD.......
Went to had breakfast at about 7plus with Teck Seng and we went home.....This is how i ended my Interesting stay at Jeffrey's house.Lol.
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16/2/2008
With the warm breeze and the gazing sunlight of the sun at 9:40AM with Fish Leong Sunrise Album playing through my radio,I decided to leave an entry.Lol.A long night was spent at Jeffrey's house.A habit of the chinese that they will do at others' house.Is not hard to guess what the activity is,it is a way you make "investment".
It is gambling.Why does Chinese have to gamble a lot during CNY period.It's a new start so it means saturated with luck and want to take advantage of this period to win some money?However,a chinese proverb said it"Gamble for ten rounds,one would normally lose nine of them."
Anyway,I didn't want to touch them,don't know whyXD.Went to the balcony looking at the buzzling highway at 3.30 in the morning lol.Walking in an out of Jeffrey's room,stared at the HD and laze around the balcony.Slowly time passes.......Is 5AM!!lol....Went to the room and wanted to take a nap and Fish Leong wake me up!!!by her MV of cuz lolsXD.......
Went to had breakfast at about 7plus with Teck Seng and we went home.....This is how i ended my Interesting stay at Jeffrey's house.Lol.
Monday, February 11, 2008
Continuation of the 1st entry(2nd entry)
05/02/2008
7:15AM Clear
Went down to the wake after brushing up.After a good night sleep,emotions start to be more "active and normal".The mood was solemn.However, as my relatives arrived,their voice overwhelm that of the chantings from the player on top of the majestic coffin.
"Go help Ah Ma change song."
The tracks were changed but there are a lot of different versions.
"Wah!Techno,RnB also have ar?! Haha!"
A little bit of humour live up the solemn and tense mood a little.Hours were spent buring joss paper for granny.As i was burning it,i looked at the coffin dazely.Memories start to flood me.My heart felt a sudden wrench.It was Painful.However,I didn't showed the action out.External shelter were extended from the hall for ritual at night.
Dusk falls.The priest arrived and start chanting again.Why does all chanting had to sound so sad.Crossing the "Nai He Qiao",throwing coins into basin.The ritual lasted about 45 minutes.After that supper was served however I don't have the appetite.Hence,I left home.
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06/02/2008
7:00AM
Today is the last day of the funeral.Everybody were worn out mentally and physically.Before the coffin was carried onto the van,we touched the coffin gently.Tears now were like out of control,falling off those pale cheeks.Soon,we left for the cemetry.
The cloudy sky seemed to be mourning for granny as well.After the paternal sons and grandsons throw in the white chrysanthemum and a small piece of soil.It is seriously heartwrenching and painful to see someone close to you bring buried.We left her "new house" on bus.Everyone was so tired that most of us knocked out on the cold bus.Finally,everything has ended.So is Granny's life story.
No matter how rich,how famous and how powerful you are.When you left is like how u came.Empty-handed.So while still living,we should do things that doesnt bother our conscience.
7:15AM Clear
Went down to the wake after brushing up.After a good night sleep,emotions start to be more "active and normal".The mood was solemn.However, as my relatives arrived,their voice overwhelm that of the chantings from the player on top of the majestic coffin.
"Go help Ah Ma change song."
The tracks were changed but there are a lot of different versions.
"Wah!Techno,RnB also have ar?! Haha!"
A little bit of humour live up the solemn and tense mood a little.Hours were spent buring joss paper for granny.As i was burning it,i looked at the coffin dazely.Memories start to flood me.My heart felt a sudden wrench.It was Painful.However,I didn't showed the action out.External shelter were extended from the hall for ritual at night.
Dusk falls.The priest arrived and start chanting again.Why does all chanting had to sound so sad.Crossing the "Nai He Qiao",throwing coins into basin.The ritual lasted about 45 minutes.After that supper was served however I don't have the appetite.Hence,I left home.
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06/02/2008
7:00AM
Today is the last day of the funeral.Everybody were worn out mentally and physically.Before the coffin was carried onto the van,we touched the coffin gently.Tears now were like out of control,falling off those pale cheeks.Soon,we left for the cemetry.
The cloudy sky seemed to be mourning for granny as well.After the paternal sons and grandsons throw in the white chrysanthemum and a small piece of soil.It is seriously heartwrenching and painful to see someone close to you bring buried.We left her "new house" on bus.Everyone was so tired that most of us knocked out on the cold bus.Finally,everything has ended.So is Granny's life story.
No matter how rich,how famous and how powerful you are.When you left is like how u came.Empty-handed.So while still living,we should do things that doesnt bother our conscience.
Sunday, February 10, 2008
First post for the blog
This blog was on prototype since dunno how long ago.....Many things had happened around me,concerning me.....Good and negative also have....After being through so much the last few days,I seemed to seen through quite a lot......
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04-02-2008
"Hello?"
"Jason ar?Grandma pass away already"
A shocking sense make me jumped off from my bed.After bathing,straight rushed down to SGH.The frail old lady laid on the bed with her eyes shut.Cousins,uncles,aunties surrounded her.They all had puffy eyes,sored.Each with tissue in the hand.
"She looked so peaceful."
I wasn't myself since then.Emotions were rather odd.No idea of how long the time has passed,some went to block 9(mortuary)whereas some went for lunch before the funeral team comes to the multi purpose hall under my block.Efficient is the word to describe the team that help set up the altar n stuffs.
Soon,everything was set up and we were told to wear the traditional clothings that is covered by the material used to mae gunnysack.
"Ah ma,Ah Ma!"
Everyone was kneeling on the ground,calling for granny.All were weeping sorrowfully.I was,again,rather weird....Sad indeed...However,I no longer sobbed since I had left the hospital.The body was carried in by the undertakers.After she was carried to the back of the altar,we stand up again.She was changed and was put into the coffin.Everyone went in front of the altar and soon the priest start chanting...The chanting was monotonous,however it sounds pitiful and filled with much sorrow.
Time flies,dusk arrived,people start to come to the wake.Around 8pm,the place was filled with people.The sad mood seemed to be overcomed my the noise made by the crowd.
Everyone was feeling hungry but the chef didnt prepared enough for all of us!Went to buy takeaway and shared with others......Went to Sleep after that........Stop here for now continue later.
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04-02-2008
"Hello?"
"Jason ar?Grandma pass away already"
A shocking sense make me jumped off from my bed.After bathing,straight rushed down to SGH.The frail old lady laid on the bed with her eyes shut.Cousins,uncles,aunties surrounded her.They all had puffy eyes,sored.Each with tissue in the hand.
"She looked so peaceful."
I wasn't myself since then.Emotions were rather odd.No idea of how long the time has passed,some went to block 9(mortuary)whereas some went for lunch before the funeral team comes to the multi purpose hall under my block.Efficient is the word to describe the team that help set up the altar n stuffs.
Soon,everything was set up and we were told to wear the traditional clothings that is covered by the material used to mae gunnysack.
"Ah ma,Ah Ma!"
Everyone was kneeling on the ground,calling for granny.All were weeping sorrowfully.I was,again,rather weird....Sad indeed...However,I no longer sobbed since I had left the hospital.The body was carried in by the undertakers.After she was carried to the back of the altar,we stand up again.She was changed and was put into the coffin.Everyone went in front of the altar and soon the priest start chanting...The chanting was monotonous,however it sounds pitiful and filled with much sorrow.
Time flies,dusk arrived,people start to come to the wake.Around 8pm,the place was filled with people.The sad mood seemed to be overcomed my the noise made by the crowd.
Everyone was feeling hungry but the chef didnt prepared enough for all of us!Went to buy takeaway and shared with others......Went to Sleep after that........Stop here for now continue later.
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