Way Of Speaking

People around us speak in a different manner.Some would said it in a very motivating manner whereas some would just keep pouring you cold water like nobody's business.Went for the job training today.Although i spent the whole day at the office,training was fun.The BM of mine is very friendly and the way he talks really motivates me and after the training,I've got the "push" feeling.LOL.

However,when there's light,there will confirm be darkness.Same for this.Other then encouraging others to make them go for the better,there also people who speak in a sacarstic or harsh manner and always get themselves into trouble.

For example,when someone had made a mistake,we shouldn't be crying over the spilled milk and reprimand,scold or do anything to condemn the one who caused the trouble but instead,we should use help them.To scold them or blame them will only worsen the situation and made them feel octsracised.To help them or encourage them,we need to communicate with them and shower them with care by talking to them,motivate them to do for the better.

Since words are known "cheap",why not praise and give constructive criticism instead of "wasting" on unnecessary comments that would affect or hurt others?=D